Steps for Communicating With Relatives Who Have Crossed Over
Let us begin by contacting those relatives whose bodies are not present but their blessed spirits are present.
1st Step: Relax and clear your mind.
- Clear your head of all the problems and concerns of the day. You want to focus on just one person who has past to the other side.
- Close your eyes and say that person's name as you read this exercise.
- Tell the past relative out loud, "I am open to communicating with you."
- "Thank you for the blessing of communicating with you again."
2nd Step: Picture the person you wish to contact.
- Breathe deeply and relax. As you exhale, allow all of the tension to leave your lungs.
- Remember a picture of your past relative or remember a scene in your life when your loved one was present.
- What kind of clothes was he wearing? What is in the background of the picture?
- As you focus on this picture, remember the personality. Did your past relative tell a unique story? Is there a funny story about your relative that makes you laugh?
- Remember all the good things about this loved one.
3rd Step: Use all of your senses.
- Is it difficult picturing a deceased relative? Many people cannot create a visual picture and yet are able to make contact.
- They accomplish this feat by using their other senses.
- You can employ your other senses to communicate effectively.
- Did your past relative smoke a pipe or use some type of fragrance?
Continuing on…
- As you breathe deeply and relax, remember the smell. You may be able to pick up the smell shortly.
- Did your loved one like to eat a certain type of food? As you think of her, remember the type of food she liked. Pay attention to your salivary glands. Are you beginning to salivate? Can you taste her favorite food?
- Focus on your sense of touch. Do you feel his presence? Do the hairs stand up on the back of your neck?
- Use your sense of hearing to listen for clues your past relative is around. Do you hear her favorite song on the radio? Can you hear his voice as that little voice inside your head?
- Always remember that you never alone. Your past relatives are still with you every day. It is easy and fun to keep them with you always.
- Share your joy and your sorrow with your past relatives. They always want to be a part of your life.
- The darkness that you felt up to now from a death will soon turn to a new light that will brighten all of your days.
